I generally tell readers how to achieve greater professional success and revolutionary or creative ways through which one can do it, using my own experience and philosophies, mostly going against publicised conventional theories. Today, it’s about the end game you expect through that professional success.
If I say; hands up all those who bounce out of bed every single morning, raring to get to work and enjoy yourself every minute of the day, how many will raise their hand? If you didn’t put your hand up even metaphorically, you’re not alone. But, many leaders try to create this state of mind in employees. Yes, we find employees who are self-motivated and committed to work, but that is not only to make the employer rich, but also to achieve career goals being the foundation for happy living.
Every human being’s wish, in this world, is happiness in life and there are many ways to be happy. But, when we work too hard or worry too much, we often forget that the simple things in life are those that make us happy… a call from a loved one, a smile from a stranger, the sight of a beautiful piece of art, listening to a nice song, a surprise gift, a tasty meal, a pat on the back and watching your favourite sport.
It doesn’t require much effort to get these simple gifts. These gifts are available in plenty and for free, but they provide immeasurable happiness and add so much meaning to life.
There is nothing wrong in striving hard at work and in fact that’s the right thing to do, but people must watch out for signs that they have begun to work themselves to death.
We all have our aspirations in life, so we work hard. But success in the workplace doesn’t always bring happiness. It’s another art, like any other, that has to be learned and mastered. When this dimension is ignored, you end up sacrificing your family, friends, your life, to achieve professional goals, but in the process you lose yourself.
Then you wonder if the loss is worth the gain. For the sustainability of anything, it’s important to seek balance and understand the night and day, back and forth and good and bad in all the activities we perform.
Check your pulses
If you are not enjoying your job, it is important to figure out why. If it is due to something that is relatively simple to fix, there is no need to go through the hassle of up heaving your whole life.
However, there are many cases where the job you’re in, is simply not suited for you.
If you are truly bored by your job, gather up your resources and change. Remember though, that you may be taking the same problems with you, so it might be worth working them out and getting them fixed before you make the move. Continuing to do a job you hate or working for the wrong employer is not a wise thing to do.
You deserve some time for yourself every day to indulge in your own world, to do something you love, or even do nothing. You need a little time, as a part of the daily cycle, to forget your chores, tasks, work and even goals, to rejuvenate your mind and body.
Spend time alone and try to introspect on your nature, behaviour and character. Love yourself. Focus on your inner and outer beauty to see the same in others. Stop relying on external aspects to stimulate you and make you happy.
You have pursued money, careers, status, and friends, and you relish them while you have them. The bad news is that they are not necessarily permanent. So, don’t treasure other things; simply be happy with yourself.
It’s important that every person engages himself or herself in what they enjoy most. Music is a magic healer. The great thing about music is that music calms the soul and relaxes the mind. It can help you cheer up when you are down. Sports is a good remedy to keep you away from bad influences.
Not only does sports teach discipline, leadership, team work, setting and achieving goals and build character, it also gets you off the sofa, into an energetic and lively feeling that’s very important to live a cheerful life.
Connecting with people you love regularly, gives you so much happiness and nature is an amazing healer for the stresses and strains of modern life. Create the habit of enjoying the simple activities you do at home. If you slow down for just a moment and take the time to appreciate ordinary, daily activities, life instantly becomes more enjoyable. The list of things you can do to enjoy life with simple pleasures is endless and diverse, so I will not propose my list to you. I only attempted to explain the concept; believe me, it works.
It’s important to find time for yourself, your family, and your friends. Keep in mind that your first priority is your loved ones, and not your work. I hope each of us will have a smile on our faces when we reminisce the old times, I hope that everyone finds living, exciting and rewarding for all. It is my wish that we would all find the time to do the things that really matter most. One of the keys to success and happiness is being true to the most important person in your life - YOU