During the interview, the Youth Observer had the pleasure of getting to know Ty Nitti, the remarkable Sri Lankan cowboy who has etched his name in the annals of horsemanship.
With over 30 years of experience as a lead wrangler and skilled horse trainer, Ty Nitti’s expertise knows no bounds.
Ty Nitti, the first-ever Sri Lankan cowboy, calls the beautiful Apple Valley, California his home. His horse ranch flourishes, showcasing his deep love for these magnificent animals. Ty’s adventures have taken him on a remarkable path, where he has worked with famous Hollywood stars and made a lasting impact on the film industry. With his exceptional skills and positivity, Ty Nitti has become a truly extraordinary cowboy who has captured the hearts of audiences worldwide.
Q: How did you become interested in cowboy culture?
A: From a young age, my father instilled in me a profound love for cowboy culture. We spent countless hours watching cowboy movies and immersing ourselves in the enchanting melodies of western music.
Following my father’s uplifting words of “fake it until you make it,” I embarked on a journey to fully embrace the cowboy way of life. It wasn’t just about the attire and attitude; it was a fusion of my admiration for Sri Lankan values and the deep-rooted cowboy principles.
Q: Why did you want to become a cowboy? Are there any unique Sri Lankan elements incorporated into your cowboy persona?
A: Becoming a cowboy has been my lifelong dream, a path that is anything but easy. While my roots lie in Sri Lanka, it is as a cowboy that I found my true calling. Sri Lankans embody a remarkable strength, an unyielding spirit that cannot be broken.
Each day presents a new battle, shaping a real cowboy from within. My father’s wise words, “Follow your passion, and you’ll never work a day in your life,” resonated deeply with me. I made the choice to pursue my passion, finding joy and fulfillment in every step of my cowboy journey.
Q: How did you learn about cowboy traditions and lifestyle?
A: Growing up as a Sri Lankan cowboy in the USA, I discovered the beauty of cowboy traditions and lifestyle through the lens of my Sri Lankan heritage. In our Sri Lankan culture, family holds immense importance, and this value resonates deeply with me. I care for my horses as if they were my own children, mirroring the strong bond and sense of responsibility we have for our family.
The cowboy way of life closely aligns with the values I grew up with, in Sri Lanka. Family takes precedence above all, and we go above and beyond to protect and care for those we hold dearly.
In both cultures, the spirit of helping others is of utmost importance. As a cowboy, I firmly believe that friends should support each other through challenging times. This profound sense of helpfulness was instilled in me by my Sri Lankan upbringing.
Being both a cowboy and having a Sri Lankan heart, I share a deep and unique connection with the world around me. My horses are more than just animals; they are family. Being in their presence brings me joy and a sense of purpose, much like caring for my human family.
Q: What are the stereotypes of being a cowboy?
A: What are the common stereotypes associated with being a cowboy? Some may believe that cowboys must fit a specific image – tall, white, and attractive. However, it’s important to recognize that cowboys come from various backgrounds and cultures around the world. Cowboys can be found in different sizes, colours, and ethnicities.
From Mexican vaqueros to African-American cowboys and beyond, the cowboy tradition is diverse and inclusive. The essence of being a cowboy lies not in external appearances, but in the values, skills, and way of life they embody. It is the way they conduct themselves, their dedication to horsemanship, and their commitment to hard work and camaraderie that truly define a cowboy, regardless of their origin or appearance.
Q: How do you communicate with your horses and how many horses do you have in your ranch?
A: I own 100 horses. Building a strong connection and effective communication with horses requires patience, compassion, and understanding. Training them to behave and respond to commands can be challenging, but through hard work and dedication, I have earned their trust and established deep bonds with each of them.
My horses hold a significant place in my life, bringing me immense joy and contentment. Simply being in their presence, caring for them, and embarking on rides together fills my heart with happiness. Our ranch has become a sanctuary of camaraderie, where the bond between horses and humans flourishes.
Q: Do you see yourself as a cultural ambassador, bridging Sri Lankan- American cowboy cultures?
A: Absolutely! Sri Lanka holds a special place in my heart, no matter where I am in the world. I am grateful for the influence my Sri Lankan roots and upbringing have had on shaping who I am today. It is my deep desire to give back to Sri Lanka and inspire the new generation of cowboys and cowgirls to pursue their dreams fearlessly.
Being a cowboy or cowgirl is much more than just conforming to the stereotypical appearance. It is an experience rooted in resilience, compassion, and care for others. By showcasing to the world that cowboys and cowgirls can come from diverse backgrounds and cultures, my aim is to break down misconceptions and stereotypes, and foster a community that embraces diversity and inclusivity.
Q: How do you envision the future of cowboy culture in the world? And what makes you proud?
A: The future of cowboy culture is dynamic and ever-evolving, adapting to the changes in our world. As time progresses, the concept of being a cowboy has expanded beyond its traditional boundaries. This evolution excites me, as it allows for new perspectives and approaches to emerge while still upholding the core values that define the cowboy way of life.
What makes me proud is witnessing the passion and dedication of the younger generation, including my own sons, who are actively shaping the future of cowboy culture. They are embracing change, seeking growth, and at the same time, preserving the timeless values of bravery, perseverance, and respect for nature that are integral to being a cowboy.
Seeing my children committed to upholding the traditions and values of the cowboy lifestyle fills me with immense joy and hope. As a parent, it is incredibly fulfilling to witness them carry on the legacy and ensure that the cowboy way of life remains alive and vibrant for generations to come. Their enthusiasm and determination inspire me and give me confidence that the cowboy culture will continue to thrive in the years ahead.
Q: Have you had the opportunity to interact with cowboys from other countries?
A: Absolutely! I’ve had the incredible opportunity to interact with cowboys from various countries, including those from different ethnic backgrounds. These encounters have allowed me to appreciate the rich tapestry of cowboy cultures and traditions across the globe.
From the skilled “Charros” of Mexico to the “Gauchos” of Argentina, and the “Native American Cowboys” of the United States, I have engaged with cowboys from diverse ethnic backgrounds. Additionally, the experiences and knowledge shared by Native American cowboys have had a profound impact on my understanding of the cowboy way of life.
I’ve had the privilege to connect with Australian “Stockmen” or “Ringers,” who bring their unique perspectives and traditions to the cowboy community. These interactions have exposed me to the diverse practices, values, and stories of cowboys from around the world.
Q: What is your golden rule that you live by?
A: The golden rule that I live by is to treat everyone with kindness and fairness, even those who may be considered my worst enemies. This principle extends to all individuals I encounter, whether they are employees, friends, or acquaintances. At my ranch, we foster a sense of togetherness and camaraderie by sharing meals together. It is important to me that every person is treated with utmost respect and care, as I value the inherent worth and dignity of each individual.
Q: How do you define cowgirls according to you?
A: Cowgirls are truly remarkable individuals. They embody independence, strength, and an unwavering work ethic. They fearlessly face challenges and strive to give their best in everything they do. Their spirit knows no boundaries, as they break barriers and push limits in pursuit of their passions.
Q: What advice would you give to someone in Sri Lanka who aspires to embrace the cowboy way of life?
A: My advice would be to live your passion and pursue what brings you joy. The world needs more cowboys and cowgirls who are unafraid to follow their dreams. As you embark on this incredible journey, let your light shine brightly and illuminate the path ahead. Along the way, you will discover the value of being bold, persistent, and compassionate. Embrace the cowboy way of life wholeheartedly, and you will find fulfillment and purpose in living authentically.
Being a cowboy or cowgirl is much more than just conforming to the stereotypical appearance. It is an experience rooted in resilience, compassion, and care for others.
